Marry First, Love Next – Falling in Love With You

“Let’s get married.” The first time they met Yu Jingxuan, they said to Miao Xingyao. Obviously she did not like him, and only longed for Yu Jingxuan. Miao Xingyao clearly thought so, but still chose to marry him. Not much time is spent together, but the two hearts are tied together. ——- A story about a girl who has been hurt and is afraid to love again and a guy who has been hurt and doesn’t want to love again. The story of filling the void in each other’s lives and falling in love again.

Original Publisher

qidian

Original Language

chinese

Type

Web Novel

## My Thoughts on *Marry First, Love Next – Falling in Love With You* This web novel promised a cute, easy-going romance with a marriage of convenience, and while it delivered on some fronts, it also presented some unexpected emotional complexities. Overall, it was a decent read, but with a few caveats. ### First Impressions The premise of a flash marriage between a shy female lead and a man slowly falling for her definitely piqued my interest. I’m a sucker for character growth and seeing a couple navigate the intricacies of a relationship that starts unconventionally. I was definitely hoping for a heartwarming and feel-good story. ### What Works Well I appreciated the author's exploration of the characters’ flaws and reactions. The female lead's bravery in pursuing a man she's loved from afar is admirable. The male lead's journey of healing from past heartbreak and learning to love his wife felt genuine. The communication between the couple, for the most part, was a strong point, making their relationship feel more realistic. The initial stages of their romance were quite touching, and it was easy to root for them. ### Areas of Concern While the story has its charms, I found some aspects frustrating. The introduction of the male lead's ex-lover threw a wrench in the works. His reaction to her return, including his sometimes cowardly behavior and emotional distance, created unnecessary conflict and made the female lead feel insecure. I would have liked to see the female lead develop more as an individual, separate from her relationship. Some solo character growth would have been beneficial, allowing her to understand her worth beyond her connection to the male lead. The actions of the female lead's mother were also a point of frustration, and I wish there had been more accountability for her hurtful behavior. ### ⚠️ Spoiler Warning The following section contains spoilers regarding the introduction of the male lead's ex-lover and the resulting conflict. The male lead's reaction to his ex-lover's return felt like a significant misstep. His tendency to "escape" and the way he made the female lead feel insecure about their relationship were frustrating to witness. While they eventually communicated and resolved the issues, the emotional turmoil could have been avoided with better handling of the situation. ### Final Verdict *Marry First, Love Next* is a decent read if you're looking for a romance with some depth and aren't afraid of a few emotional bumps along the road. However, be prepared for some frustrating character choices and potentially triggering conflicts. It's not all sunshine and rainbows, but it offers a realistic portrayal of a relationship with its share of challenges. I would recommend it with a grain of salt, knowing that it might evoke a range of emotions, both positive and negative.